In 2025, ShowUp introduced DateDeposits.
Dating hasn't been the same since.
Ghosting has a price now.And you’re the one who sets it.If he flakes, you get paid.
It’s 100% free.
Dating shouldn’t feel like this...
“I spent 2 hours getting ready. He canceled 10 minutes before.”
“I’m so sick of dating apps. No one follows through.”
“Was so excited for Friday night. Ghosted. No sorry. Just silence.”
You don’t deserve this.
Your time is too valuable to waste on no-shows and excuses.
That’s why we built ShowUp — to finally make dates mean something.
Here’s how ShowUp changes the game
🛑 No more empty plans
With ShowUp, people commit upfront — with real money. If they’re not serious, they won’t even click.
💸 Ghosting has consequences
They bail? You get paid. Finally, your time has real value.
✨ Just one link. That’s it.
No drama. No setup. Just send the ShowUp Link and you're in control.
Try it once. You’ll never plan without it again.
🎯HOW SHOWUP WORKS
Create your ShowUp Link.
Choose a date, time, and deposit amount. You’ll instantly get a link to share — plus a private QR code, sent to your email, for him to scan when he shows up.
Send him the link.
If he’s serious, he confirms with his card. You don’t pay a thing. We lock the deposit — no charge unless he bails.
Powered by Stripe. Secure, automatic, and fair.
He shows up — or not.
If he arrives, just have him scan your QR code — the hold is released immediately. If he ghosts you, we collect the deposit and send your payout the next day.
Ready to try it?
It’s 100% free. Just create a link.
Real women. Real dates. Real boundaries.
“If they won’t commit to a deposit, they’re not committing to me.”
“I haven’t been ghosted once since I started using ShowUp.”
“It filters out the guys who weren’t serious anyway.”
“It’s free. I use it for every date now.”
ShowUp is 100% free. Try it once — you’ll never plan a date without it again.