Stop Getting Ghosted.
Start Getting Paid.
additional links from $5.
so your date has skin in the game.
💗 This week, 3,247 women already joined ShowUp. Try it free.
ShowUp is the first dating app where flakes pay.Your date locks in with a deposit — if they show up, they get it back.If they ghost you, you get the cash.
No app download needed. Sign up in 30 seconds.
🆓 Free signup includes 1 link credit
💰 Invite friends and both of you get free credits — even more if they actually go on a date!
"Finally, someone solved the ghosting problem" — Sarah Chen, Tech Reporter at Business Insider
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You've Been Here Before...
😞 The Typical Ghost Story (Sound Familiar?)
But it doesn't have to be this way...
“I spent 2 hours getting ready. He canceled 10 minutes before.”
“I’m so sick of dating apps. No one follows through.”
“Was so excited for Friday night. Ghosted. No sorry. Just silence.”
You don’t deserve this.
Your time is too valuable to waste on no-shows and excuses.
That’s why we built ShowUp — to finally make dates mean something.
Here’s how ShowUp changes the game
🛑 No more empty plans
With ShowUp, people commit upfront — with real money. If they’re not serious, they won’t even click.
💸 Ghosting has consequences
They bail? You get paid. Finally, your time has real value.
✨ Just one link. That’s it.
No drama. No setup. Just send the ShowUp Link and you're in control.
Try it once. You’ll never plan without it again.
🎯HOW SHOWUP WORKS
Create your ShowUp Link.
Choose a date, time, and deposit amount. You’ll instantly get a link to share — plus a private QR code, sent to your email, for him to scan when he shows up.
Send him the link.
If he’s serious, he confirms with his card. You don’t pay a thing. We lock the deposit — no charge unless he bails.
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He shows up — or not.
If he arrives, just have him scan your QR code — the hold is released immediately. If he ghosts you, we collect the deposit and send your payout the next day.
Ready to try it?
Free signup includes 1 link credit
Simple Pricing. Bigger Savings.
💡 Most users buy 3-5 credits to start. Heavy daters love the 10-pack.
See How ShowUp Changed Everything
Watch Sarah's Story
From getting ghosted 3 times in a row to never missing a date
"I was so tired of getting ready for dates that never happened. ShowUp gave me my confidence back."
— Sarah M., Marketing Manager, NYC
Real women. Real dates. Real boundaries.
“If they won’t commit to a deposit, they’re not committing to me.”
“I haven’t been ghosted once since I started using ShowUp.”
“It filters out the guys who weren’t serious anyway.”
“It’s free. I use it for every date now.”
ShowUp is 100% free to try. You'll never plan a date without it again.
💰 Earn Credits By Inviting Friends
Friend Signs Up
When someone uses your referral link to join ShowUp, you both get 1 bonus credit immediately.
Friend Goes On Date
When your friend successfully uses ShowUp for their first date, you earn another credit.
💡 Pro tip: Share ShowUp with your dating friends. You'll all save money and never get ghosted again.
ShowUp vs. Getting Ghosted Again
😤 Without ShowUp
- ✗Spend hours getting ready for dates that never happen
- ✗Waste emotional energy on people who aren't serious
- ✗Feel frustrated and lose confidence in dating
- ✗No accountability for bad behavior
✨ With ShowUp
- ✓97% of your dates actually happen as planned
- ✓Get paid when someone wastes your time
- ✓Only date people who are genuinely serious
- ✓Earn free credits by inviting friends
Common Questions
What if he actually shows up?
Perfect! He scans your QR code, the hold is released immediately, and his deposit comes right back. Everyone wins.
What if he ghosts me?
The deposit is automatically collected and sent to you the next business day (minus a small 3% processing fee). You'll receive the payout via bank transfer within 24 hours. Finally, ghosting has consequences.
Is ShowUp really free?
Yes! You get 1 free link credit when you sign up. Additional credits are $5 each, but you earn them back through referrals.
What if he won't put down a deposit?
Then he's not serious about the date. ShowUp filters out the time-wasters before they waste your time. You deserve better.
How much should I set as the deposit?
Most women choose $15-$40. It should be enough to matter, but not so high that serious guys won't pay it. You know your worth.
Is my payment information secure?
Absolutely. All payments are processed by Stripe (used by millions of businesses). We never store your payment details. Your data is encrypted and GDPR compliant.
Why I Built ShowUp
"I got ghosted three times in one week."
I had spent hours getting ready, rearranged my schedule, and even turned down other plans. Each time, I sat alone at the restaurant, feeling embarrassed and frustrated.
That's when I realized: dating apps solve the wrong problem. They focus on matching, not accountability. They help you find dates, but don't help ensure those dates actually happen.
So I built ShowUp. Not as a dating app, but as a dating accountability tool. Because your time has value, and you deserve someone who respects it.
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